Saturday, March 21, 2020

43.3.2.5. The Children of Arthur and Victoria Durnford



The Children of Arthur and Victoria Durnford

From their early childhood, the children undertook different paths

  



Ethel in 1871                                          With Gwendoline 1880





Ethel Mary Victoria Durnford married Rev James Edward Tarbat.

James was the descendant of William Tarbat 1753, who lived in Forfar Scotland and died 1836, buried at Dunnichen Church Cemetery.

His son was John Tarbat, who was a stone-dyker. (One who built stone walls). John married Christian Allan in 1810.

Their son was Alexander Tarbat, who married Elizabeth Hipkins in 1860.. Alexander was listed as a Yoeman of the Guard in 1881, and lived at Hammersmith.  They had a daughter Jessie and son Alan.
Elizabeth Hipkins was the daughter of Paris Hipkins and his wife Ann Mary Shrapnell.

In 1836, Paris was elected to the board of Officers of the Union, Western Division. He was appointed to enquire into the condition of the poor houses, at every parish, in Wells. He later died in Galverston Texas.

Ethel and Rev James Tarbat married in 1903 in Weybridge.  He had been the Vicar at the Church, and had two children


Alan Cecil Tarbat                      1904 – 1978
Evelyn Mary Tarbat                  1906 -  1945  m Capt Rev. Alan Cecil Parr 1904 – 1943


Hampshire Chronicle 20 June 1903

Fareham

Marriage of the Rev J.E. Tarbat and Miss E. Durnford – Much interest was taken at the wedding of the Rev James Edward Tarbat, Vicar of Fareham, and Miss Ethel Mary Victoria Durnford, daughter of Col. Arthur G. Durnford, late Royal Engineers, and Mrs Durnford, Rackenford Lodge, Weybridge, which was solemnised at the parish church of St. Jame’s Weybridge, Tuesday afternoon in last week.  
The bridegroom was for some years senior curate of Weybridge and when he left in 1900 to accept the living of Fareham was the recipient from the parishioners of a substantial mark of their esteem and goodwill.  As Vicar of Fareham he has firmly established himself in the affections of his parishioners, who made him a handsome wedding present.  Miss Durnford is also well-known and generally liked in Weybridge, where she has been an earnest and active church worker, and has made a host of friends......


Ethel enjoyed painting, and that was a family trait.  




Hampshire Telegraph 19 February 1937





The death took place at 1, Romsey Road Winchester, Wednesday evening of the Rev James Edward Tarbat, M.A. Vicar of Fareham for 28 years – fro, 1901 to 1928.  Since his retirement Mr. Tarbat had lived at Winchester.  The funeral will take place at the Fareham Cemetery tomorrow (Saturday).  The reverend gentleman was 73 years of age.  During his vicariate at Fareham, he took a great interest in the various activities of the town, particularly in Price’s School, of which he was the first Chairman of the Governors upon its re-organisation. He was largely instrumental in the beautification of the Parish Church, and raised a good deal of money, which was used after he had left upon work of restoration, which was carried out in 1930.

Mr Tarbat was a keen entomologist and had a fine collection of butterflies and moths, which he presented a year ago to the Cambridge University.  He was notable for his great activity.  He left Fareham to accept the Rectory of Calbourne, Isle of Wight, from which he returned to live at Winchester.

Mr Tarbat was a great scholar, and could lecture on church history and the Prayer Book without notes.  He leaves a widow, son and daughter.....




Gwendolen Durnford

Gwendolen Alice Mary Durnford was born in 1869 in Malta.  She did not marry but served with the Red Cross during World War 1, for a period of 4 years.

At the time she was living at Cruwyshaye Budleigh Salteston




She died on 10th February 1934, and her sister was the beneficiary.



Arthur Cecil Somerset Durnford

Arthur was born in 1875, while the family were living in Gillingham, in Kent

Along with his younger brother, he pursued a career in the Military.


With his brother, he was presented to Prince Arthur, during a Queen’s Levee at St James Palace in March, 1896.  He was a Second Lieutenant in the 2nd Battalion West India Regiment, and was presented to the Prince by his father.

Arthur was sent to Sierra Leone, and he died there in 1897, after contracting malaria.  





 Memorial to 2nd Lieutenant Arthur Cecil Somerset Durnford, West India Regiment. Elder son of Colonel Arthur George Durnford, Royal Engineers and Victoria Durnford (nee Devon).
Baptized at Gillingham Church, Kent, on 19 Mar 1875. Educated at Hill House School, Guildford 1885-1887, Sandroyd House, Cobham, Surrey 1887-1889 and Uppingham School 1889-!891.

Gentleman Cadet at the Royal Military College, Sandhurst 1894-95. Commissioned as a 2nd Lieutenant in the West India Regiment on 25 Mar 1896. He was attached to the 17th, the Leicestershire Regiment at Aldershot from 25 April 1896 to 12 Sep 1896. On 17 Oct 1896 he embarked for Sierra Leone. He proceeded from Sierra Leone to Cape Coast Castle with two companies, West India Regiment, to which he was appointed Adjutant and Quarter-Master on 5 May 1897.

He arrived at Cape Coast Castle 11 May 1897. Died of malarial fever at Cape Coast Castle, West Coast of Africa (Ghana), aged 22 years. [1]







[1] Royal Memorial Chapel, RMA Sandhurst
Royal Memorial Chapel, RMA Sandhurst





  The youngest son, Guy Edward Jeroise Durnford, was born on 29th May, 1876.  In 1893, he entered the Royal Military Academy, Woolwich and obtained his commission in the Royal Engineers on 3rd August, 1895.



From 1900 to 1905 he was appointed Assistant Instructor of Submarine Mining at the School of Military Engineering, and from 1910 to 1914 he was Instructor (Workshops) at the School of Military Engineering.








He served in the Great War, 1914 - 1918, being appointed Staff Officer to the Chief Engineer of the First Army in France in 1916., and Commanding Royal Engineer of the 61st Division, 1916 - 1919. 


He was twice mentioned in dispatches, and awarded the D.S.O.  He was subsequently appointed Commanding Royal Engineer of the Athlone, Ulster and Chatham Districts. 

He retired as a Colonel in 1926.  Colonel GEJ. Durnford married Bessie Muriel, youngest daughter of the late Colonel John Ford, Royal Artillery.  He had one son and one daughter.

According to the Harts, he also served in Gibraltar in 1904.


In 1938, Guy and his wife visited Port Said in Egypt, and ports including Brisbane

He married Bessie Muriel Ford in 1903. She was the daughter of Col John Ford, who had served in India, and his wife Elizabeth Fisher Knowles. 

Guy and Bessie had two children, Elizabeth, and Anthony Guy Devon Durnford.  He was a Major in the Royal Regiment of Artillery.



There were two Guy Durnford’s one born 1883, was a London solicitor who lived at Brighton

Guy was born May 1876, at Aldershot.  He was the son of William Durnford and Mary Ann Veals, from the Richard Durnford lineage




The photos are from the collection of Alan Tarbat








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